Ketika lagi asik-asiknya menjalin
persahabatan, tiba-tiba ada penyusup. Penyusup disini bukan berbentuk manusia
lain yang berusaha untuk merusak persahabatan, tapi lebih parah dari itu. Yap,
penyusup disini maksudnya si cinta. Perasaan paling norak yang ga tau darimana
datangnya, ga pernah diundang juga tapi tiba-tiba bersarang dihati lo. Kesel ga
sih? Nyebelin ga sih? Bikin bete ga sih?
Gue pribadi nganggep itu ganggu
banget. Hal kayak gitu bikin persahabatan udah ga seratus persen murni lagi.
Dipenuhi dengan modus. Gunain nama persahabatan biar lo bisa deket-deket terus
sama dia, padahal perasaan dihati udah berubah. Itu sih sama aja kriminalitas.
Kebohongan. Bikin rusak persahabatan.
Tapi balik lagi, siapa sih yang
pengen ada cinta ditengah persahabatan? Pasti ga ada yang pengen kan. Harusnya
sahabat ya sahabat, cinta ya cinta. Harusnya ga pernah ada cerita dari sahabat
jadi cinta. Gue berani jamin kalo udah ada yang namanya cinta pasti
persahabatan lo udah ga asik lagi. Udah mulai ada jaim-jaiman, udah agak kaku,
udah ada cemburu-cemburuan. Ah! Ga asik banget deh pokoknya.
Dan parahnya lagi, kalo si sahabat
lo ini ternyata udah punya pacar. Nah lho, ribet kan? Lo ga mungkin bilang
cinta sama sahabat lo, ya karena kalian sahabat. Lo ga mau bikin hancur
persahabatan, tapi lo pengen milikin dia seutuhnya. Cuma lo, ga boleh ada yang
lain. And the fact, it`s life! kita ga pernah minta jadi kayak gini tapi kita
harus nerima dengan pasrah. Segala usaha udah lo lakuin buat ngusir jauh-jauh
si cinta ini, tapi selalu gagal. Gimana ga gagal, tiap hari selalu ketemu,
dapet perhatian yang sebenernya perhatian dalam porsi sahabat. Tapi berhubung
perasaan lo udah berubah, jadi lo nganggep perhatian dia itu lebih.
Kalo dia lagi sama pacarnya, lo
merasa diabaikan. Ga diperhatikan. Padahal sebelumnya kan juga enjoy-enjoy aja.
Wajar kalo pacarnya dapet perhatian lebih, ya karena dia pacarnya. Orang yang
dia pilih untuk mendampingi dia. Tapi kenapa lo jadi sewot? Ya karena tanpa
sadar lo juga pengen dapet perhatian yang sama dari dia, lo pengen dia
memperlakukan lo seperti dia memperlakukan pacarnya. Dan hey, itu ga mungkin
bisa. Dia Cuma nganggep lo sahabatnya. Menyakitkan memang, tapi mau gimana
lagi. Lo ga bisa berbuat apa-apa. Kalo bilang cinta, risiko nya persahabatan
kalian berakhir. Kalo diem aja, risiko nya harus nanggung sakit. Pilih mana?
Dan lebih dramatisnya, lo tau kalo
ternyata pacarnya ga se-sayang itu sama dia. Pacarnya selalu nyakitin dia, tapi
dia milih untuk bertahan. Lo tau kebusukan pacarnya, tapi lo ga bisa bilang ke
dia karena ga mau bikin dia tambah sakit hati. Lo pengen dia pisah sama
pacarnya, tapi lo tau dia sayang banget sama pacarnya. Dan ga mudah juga buat
misahin mereka. Dan lo Cuma bisa bilang dalam hati “Hey what you doing
with a girl like that?”
Kisah yang begini mirip banget sama
lagu nya Taylor Swift - You Belong With Me
Let`s see
the lyric :
You're
on the phone with your girlfriend,
she's
upset She's going off about something that you said
'Cause
she doesn't get your humor like I do
I'm
in the room, it's a typical Tuesday night
I'm
listening to the kind of music she doesn't like
And
she'll never know your story like I do
But
she wears short skirts, I wear T-shirts She's
Cheer
Captain and I'm on the bleachers
Dreaming
about the day when you wake up and find
That
what you're looking for has been here the whole time
If
you could see that I'm the one who understands you
Been
here all along, so why can't you see?
You,
you belong with me, you belong with me
Walking
the streets with you and your worn-out jeans
I
can't help thinking this is how it ought to be
Laughing
on a park bench, thinking to myself Hey, isn't this easy?
And
you've got a smile that could light up this whole town
I
haven't seen it in a while since she brought you down
You
say you're fine, I know you better than that
Hey,
what ya doing with a girl like that?
She
wears high heels, I wear sneakers
She's
Cheer Captain and I'm on the bleachers
Dreaming
about the day when you wake up and find
That
what you're looking for has been here the whole time
If
you could see that I'm the one who understands you
Been
here all along, so why can't you see? You belong with me
Standing
by and waiting at your back door
All
this time how could you not know?
Baby,
you belong with me, you belong with me
Oh,
I remember you driving to my house in the middle of the night
I'm
the one who makes you laugh when you know you're 'bout to cry
And
I know your favorite songs and you tell me 'bout your dreams
Think
I know where you belong, think I know it's with me..
Can't
you see that I'm the one who understands you?
Been
here all along, so why can't you see? You belong with me
Standing
by and waiting at your back door
All
this time, how could you not know?
Baby,
you belong with me, you belong with me
You
belong with me
Have
you ever thought just maybe
You belong with me? You
belong with me...
Parah! JLEB banget kan liriknya?