Kenapa harus ada embel-embel "Cinta"?

Ketika lagi asik-asiknya menjalin persahabatan, tiba-tiba ada penyusup. Penyusup disini bukan berbentuk manusia lain yang berusaha untuk merusak persahabatan, tapi lebih parah dari itu. Yap, penyusup disini maksudnya si cinta. Perasaan paling norak yang ga tau darimana datangnya, ga pernah diundang juga tapi tiba-tiba bersarang dihati lo. Kesel ga sih? Nyebelin ga sih? Bikin bete ga sih?

Gue pribadi nganggep itu ganggu banget. Hal kayak gitu bikin persahabatan udah ga seratus persen murni lagi. Dipenuhi dengan modus. Gunain nama persahabatan biar lo bisa deket-deket terus sama dia, padahal perasaan dihati udah berubah. Itu sih sama aja kriminalitas. Kebohongan. Bikin rusak persahabatan.

Tapi balik lagi, siapa sih yang pengen ada cinta ditengah persahabatan? Pasti ga ada yang pengen kan. Harusnya sahabat ya sahabat, cinta ya cinta. Harusnya ga pernah ada cerita dari sahabat jadi cinta. Gue berani jamin kalo udah ada yang namanya cinta pasti persahabatan lo udah ga asik lagi. Udah mulai ada jaim-jaiman, udah agak kaku, udah ada cemburu-cemburuan. Ah! Ga asik banget deh pokoknya.

Dan parahnya lagi, kalo si sahabat lo ini ternyata udah punya pacar. Nah lho, ribet kan? Lo ga mungkin bilang cinta sama sahabat lo, ya karena kalian sahabat. Lo ga mau bikin hancur persahabatan, tapi lo pengen milikin dia seutuhnya. Cuma lo, ga boleh ada yang lain. And the fact, it`s life! kita ga pernah minta jadi kayak gini tapi kita harus nerima dengan pasrah. Segala usaha udah lo lakuin buat ngusir jauh-jauh si cinta ini, tapi selalu gagal. Gimana ga gagal, tiap hari selalu ketemu, dapet perhatian yang sebenernya perhatian dalam porsi sahabat. Tapi berhubung perasaan lo udah berubah, jadi lo nganggep perhatian dia itu lebih.

Kalo dia lagi sama pacarnya, lo merasa diabaikan. Ga diperhatikan. Padahal sebelumnya kan juga enjoy-enjoy aja. Wajar kalo pacarnya dapet perhatian lebih, ya karena dia pacarnya. Orang yang dia pilih untuk mendampingi dia. Tapi kenapa lo jadi sewot? Ya karena tanpa sadar lo juga pengen dapet perhatian yang sama dari dia, lo pengen dia memperlakukan lo seperti dia memperlakukan pacarnya. Dan hey, itu ga mungkin bisa. Dia Cuma nganggep lo sahabatnya. Menyakitkan memang, tapi mau gimana lagi. Lo ga bisa berbuat apa-apa. Kalo bilang cinta, risiko nya persahabatan kalian berakhir. Kalo diem aja, risiko nya harus nanggung sakit. Pilih mana?

Dan lebih dramatisnya, lo tau kalo ternyata pacarnya ga se-sayang itu sama dia. Pacarnya selalu nyakitin dia, tapi dia milih untuk bertahan. Lo tau kebusukan pacarnya, tapi lo ga bisa bilang ke dia karena ga mau bikin dia tambah sakit hati. Lo pengen dia pisah sama pacarnya, tapi lo tau dia sayang banget sama pacarnya. Dan ga mudah juga buat misahin mereka. Dan lo Cuma bisa bilang dalam hati “Hey what you doing with a girl like that?”

Kisah yang begini mirip banget sama lagu nya Taylor Swift - You Belong With Me

Let`s see the lyric :

You're on the phone with your girlfriend,

she's upset She's going off about something that you said

'Cause she doesn't get your humor like I do

I'm in the room, it's a typical Tuesday night

I'm listening to the kind of music she doesn't like

And she'll never know your story like I do

But she wears short skirts, I wear T-shirts She's

Cheer Captain and I'm on the bleachers

Dreaming about the day when you wake up and find

That what you're looking for has been here the whole time

If you could see that I'm the one who understands you

Been here all along, so why can't you see?

You, you belong with me, you belong with me

Walking the streets with you and your worn-out jeans

I can't help thinking this is how it ought to be

Laughing on a park bench, thinking to myself Hey, isn't this easy?

And you've got a smile that could light up this whole town

I haven't seen it in a while since she brought you down

You say you're fine, I know you better than that

Hey, what ya doing with a girl like that?

She wears high heels, I wear sneakers

She's Cheer Captain and I'm on the bleachers

Dreaming about the day when you wake up and find

That what you're looking for has been here the whole time

If you could see that I'm the one who understands you

Been here all along, so why can't you see? You belong with me

Standing by and waiting at your back door

All this time how could you not know?

Baby, you belong with me, you belong with me

Oh, I remember you driving to my house in the middle of the night

I'm the one who makes you laugh when you know you're 'bout to cry

And I know your favorite songs and you tell me 'bout your dreams

Think I know where you belong, think I know it's with me..

Can't you see that I'm the one who understands you?

Been here all along, so why can't you see? You belong with me

Standing by and waiting at your back door

All this time, how could you not know?

Baby, you belong with me, you belong with me

You belong with me

Have you ever thought just maybe

You belong with me? You belong with me...

Parah! JLEB banget kan liriknya?